Getting started with a strap-on dildo can be scary. But reading about how other women have done it on Reddit or other forums can help.
The Lovehoney Beginner Strap-on Harness Kit was easy to use. Its curved shaft makes G-spot stimulation straightforward, and the harness is stretchy for an excellent fit. The kit includes multiple O-rings for versatility.
1. Desire Luxury Strapless
The Desire Luxury Strap-On is a double-head dildo that’s designed for lesbian penetration play. It’s long and girthy, so it will require some work to get it into place for both partners, but once you’re in position, this toy provides rumbly vibrations that should reach your clit.
To use it, you’ll insert the shorter of the two shafts into your pelvic floor muscles and then tilt the dildo to find an angle that works for both partners. You can also use the remote to manipulate the vibration speeds and patterns for incredible shared arousal.
It’s also easy to clean and comes with a swish black storage pouch. Lovehoney offers a generous 100% money-back guarantee if you’re not satisfied with this sex toy. It’s a little more expensive than some other strap-on harnesses, but it has the best double-sided vibe we’ve tried.
2. Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-on Harness Kit
Pegging can be an exciting kink for lesbians to explore and even more fun for couples. It can subvert gender roles, explore taboos and be a great way to get intimate and sexually satisfying with your partner.
But pegging can also be a lot of work and might not be the most comfortable first-time experience for both givers and receivers. To help ease the transition and make it a bit more accessible, Lovehoney has made this beginner strap-on harness kit that includes everything you need to get started.
It comes with a machine-washable harness, three different O-ring sizes for varying sizes of dildos and a 7 inch smooth, firm silicone dildo that’s perfect for pegging or G-spot penetration play. And the best part is it’s under $40!
4. Lovehoney Basic Strap-on Harness Kit
Lovehoney Basic Strap-on Harness Kit is a great starter toy for those who don’t have much anal stim experience. It includes a quality, girthy silicone 7” dildo with a realistic shape and tapered tip for easy insertion and P-spot stimulation.
There’s a small pocket inside the harness that you can slip a bullet vibe in for more pleasure. The fabric feels silky soft and pleasant on the skin, too.
It closes securely with snaps, so the wearer has a little bit of independence during play. Add some water-based lube, and this toy is ready to go! It’s also easy to clean. Just make sure to put it back in the o-rings after use. The harness has breathing space for the balls and the sewn-in ring is a good size for any dildo.
5. Lovehoney Beginner Strap-on Harness Kit
A lot of people get their first taste of strap-on dildos and harnesses by looking for one at their favorite sex toy store. But if you want a little bit of a heads-up before you head in, try browsing the strap-on harness sections at places like Lovehoney, Adam & Eve, or Babeland.
Many of these have a range of dildo sizes and adjustable harnesses, which make it easier for you or your partner to find a good fit. Some even come with a bullet vibe to tuck into the dildo hole for external clitoral and perineum stimulation.
The Lovehoney Beginner Strap-on Harness Kit comes with a small silicone dildo and three different rubber O-rings for the dildo hole. It’s easy to adjust and comfortable for most women, but if you need something bigger, the advanced strap-on kit is also available.
7. Tantus Strap-on Harness Kit
If you’re a first-time pegger who wants to try something safe, fun and affordable, this kit is a good choice. It includes everything a beginner needs to start anal stim, including a machine washable harness and two dildos of different sizes. Both dildos are made from premium medical-grade silicone, so they’re hypoallergenic, odorless and tasteless – but also firm enough to stimulate your anal stim when you apply some good lube.
The smaller dildo has realistic ridges and veins for great G-spot and prostate play. The bigger dildo has a curved shape to reach the P-spot. Both are easy to clean, and the harness is comfortable and adjustable. A bullet vibrator fits in the pocket on front, and it’s compatible with other toys of varying girth.