Fingering a woman is an amazing way to pleasure her. However, if you have an STI (like chlamydia or gonorrhea) or don’t know your status, be careful with hand play!
Don’t forget her other pleasurable spots, like rubbing her G-spot and her clitoris. Also, make sure you use a lot of lube.
1. Look for the hole
Before you can finger her pussy, it’s important to understand what your target’s body is telling you. If she’s moaning and rubbing her clit, she’s ready for the next step. Vigorously shoveling two fingers in and out of her vagina will almost certainly not get her to orgasm, so take it slow.
The clitoris, which sits on top of the pussy hole, is a sensitive area that can cause orgasms if it’s touched and massaged. If she’s already reaching for her clit, you can try to rub it and fondle it with your fingers or finger her whole body with your thumb and ring fingers.
If she’s still rubbing her clit and moaning, you can start by inserting your index finger in the bottom of the pussy. This will place your finger in the G-spot, or the “pocket” that her clitoris is nestled inside of. From there, you can rub it with your thumb and ring finger or stroke the G-spot with your middle and ring finger in circular motions. This will give her a great sensation and may even bring her to orgasm.
2. Put your finger in
Fingering can be an incredible source of pleasure for a girl, and it gives you a lot of control over how you stimulate her. It can also create orgasms that don’t just tickle, but make her whole body explode with pleasure.
It can be tempting to start fingering immediately, but you must take your time and build up slowly. You don’t want to put your fingers in her pussy and cause pain or discomfort. Instead, start by rubbing her love hole and licking her clit until she’s ready for penetration.
Once she’s turned on and properly lubricated, gently insert your finger into her g-spot. You can play around with this area by using different amounts of pressure, rotating in circles, and rubbing up and down.
Make sure your fingers are clean and trimmed before you begin, and use lube as needed to avoid injury. However, you should never rely solely on your hands to learn how to finger a woman; communication is essential for safe and satisfying sex. And always remember to check for STIs afterward.
3. Rub her clit
A very kinky finger technique that can please her a lot is rubbing her clit. With her back to you, slide your thumb underneath her panties until it reaches her G-spot and rub it gently or firmly. This will get her heart thumping wildly and she’ll ask for more. Be sure to use a good quality lubricant to amplify the fun.
Another great way to stimulate her G-spot is using the Spiderman technique, which involves bringing your middle and ring finger in toward the palm of your hand like a gun. This will place your fingers right on her G-spot and you can move them around or even emulate a come here motion with them.
Most women find that clitoral stimulation is their most effective method of reaching orgasm. You can also try strokes with your index finger from the pubic mound to her clit, which will feel like vibrations. Vary the pressure and speed, but keep consistent pressure until she says otherwise. For an added kink, stroking from her clit to her lips will give her some edge play.
4. Suck on her ear
Using your fingers to please her is great, but there is also something very kinky about sucking on her ear. It’s an intense sensation that can make her feel like a pig in a hole and it is super orgasmic for some women. Just make sure that your hands are clean, and that you have plenty of lube for the task.
When you’re ready to start fingering her, slip your hand under her panties and tease and rub her clit. As she gets turned on, gently suck her ear and tell her how naughty she looks. Then, you can begin inserting your finger. Go in slowly and then pull out. This is a great way to build up the anticipation and keep her orgasming before she is even ready for penetration. This technique is the perfect combination of touch, tease, and escalate. It is the secret to making her feel 10x more pleasure than you could ever give her with just your penis alone. It’s a very effective way to remove the brakes from her sex drive and get her to explode with orgasm.
5. Kiss her body
When she’s all turned on and properly lubricated, you can start kissing her body in places that will send sensations all the way down to her clitoris. For example, kiss her ears, the nape of her neck, and her nipples. These areas are highly sensitive and turn her on very quickly.
After you’ve done that, gently kiss her clit and rub it. There are 8,000 nerve endings in her clitoris, so this will be very pleasurable for her. You can also massage her clit with your thumb, which is a little thicker and stronger than your finger and will give her a new kind of pleasure.
The rib cage is another area that’s extremely pleasurable for some women, as it’s the first part of her body that meets her hips. You can even use your hands to make her writhe around in excitement underneath you. The most important thing to remember is to keep it light and playful at all times, and not push too hard when you’re inside her. It can be very painful if you go in too deep too fast!